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Its either coz we realize dat we never treasured d moments when dey were always there, and it left us wishing we could learn and back time again, or we were too happy with them, we enjoyed every single moment, that we became so used to the idea of having them around. But when we finally walked separately live we realized the moment you spent without them is life dying stars which slowly leave the sky empty..

Love and Time

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
“Richness, can you take me with you?”
Richness answered, “No, I can’t. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you.”

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. “Vanity, please help me!”
“I can’t help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat,” Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, “Sadness, let me go with you.”
“Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!”

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, “Come, Love, I will take you.” It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,

Love asked Knowledge, another elder, “Who Helped me?”
“It was Time,” Knowledge answered.
“Time?” asked Love. “But why did Time help me?”
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, “Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is.”

“Fall but not stumble. Be consistent but not too persistent. Share and never be unfair. Understand and not try to demand. Hurt but never keep the pain.”

Talking about love drives us a little crazy., a little mad. Sometimes it makes us sad, it causes sleepless nights and even breaks our heart. But how come people are so much tied up with this thing? Is it healthy to be in love and to fall in love? Is it worthy if we try?

How is it to be in love?

For those who have it, it is a blessing. It is not the matter of finding the right person, but creating the right relationship. True love hears what is unspoken and understands what is unexplained, for love doesn’t reside in flowers and chocolates, neither does ordinary event in your life.

Sometimes love can be very confusing. you fall in love with the person you haven’t or least expected, who does not possess the qualities that you’re looking for. But that’s life, you don’t always have to win the first diamond. What really matters most is the person himself, his heart who speaks honestly and pure. What is the sense of having a handsome man or a beautiful woman, if his/her heart is an arsenal of lies?

Some are scared to fall, scared to accept the truth, the pain. But the pain is somewhat a correlative of love. Nobody can experience true love if one doesn’t experienced pain or no one had ever picked up a rose without accepting the thorns.

Don’t be afraid to break someone’s heart or your heart t be broken, coz that’s how relationships are. When we are young, pains are stepping stones for the main one. Follow your heart, it might not always be right, but despite the pain, you’ll have the memories that will make you smile even once in a while.

Being in love is a great thing. No one can resist the beauty of love, it is every person’s desire. There’s a feeling of happiness, contentment and joy when you’re in love. The world you are living seems perfect, seems like heaven on earth but hell if it tends to break your heart.

Loving is not about sacrificing, it is about showing your affection to whom you choose to love. Happiness comes to those who love freely without asking them, like the sun who doesn’t asked people if they deserve warmth. When you love, you must not expect something in return. If you do, you’re not loving, but investing. And if you love, you must prepare to accept pain.